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Bukan aku yg buat yg buat ye..kwn opis yg buat...aku tolong pomot jerk...sekuk tat dia mmg fevret aku...bg sploh balang pon xcukup
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May Allah bless Rayhan
Assalamualaikum..
nak share sikit satu cerita tentang kawan yang baru melahirkan baby boy baru2 ni...ni anak kedua dia..dia share dalam facebook....sebak rasanya bila baca status yang dia update
This is a story of my beautiful Muhammad Rayhan Rafiqin - Having pregnant with my second child was the most happiest moment of my life. I love being pregnant and hope to get pregnant again. Alhamdulillah, giving birth to Rayhan was fast and easy. It was the most defining moment of my life but this is just the begining of my story. The paedetrician told us a shocking news that our son is having Down Syndrome. I didnt cry until the moment i held him close on my chest. I cried and cried even more when the paedetrician diagnosed Rayhan with cleft palate and other complications. My heart sank! What have i done to make him be like this? What have i done?? I didnt want to believe and hoping for miracle..i was in a balck hole.. I didnt want my son to be like this.. But later after a hard loud cried, i hold him again and hear him telling me " LOVE ME, LOVE ME PLS, I KNOW IM NOT WHAT U EXPECTED BUT PLS LOVE ME!...and from that onwards i know i need help from many doctors, specialist and support groups but what i need most is to follow my MOTHERLY INSTINCT and love my son unconditionally. Dearest baby RAYHAN, u r beautiful and daddy, mummy n big bro rayyan love u dearly. MY SONS, U COMPLETE ME!
Dearest family, friends, and everyone here, All praises to Allah, thank u for gvg support to us n bby rayhan, we will alwis try our very best to be a great parents to our children. Thank u for ur prayers and love for our rayhan. Indeed having a special child has change our life to a better path, thank Allah. We believe in miracle n this is a miracle that He has sent to us. May this story gv other mothers out there to continue love their children regardless of thier Notiness.. Children r the greatest gift of all. Hugs n kissess frm bby Rayhan to all of u.
kat bawah ni komen dari rakan beliau
I cried when I read your message. As a mother, I understand how you feel. Amoi remember what Allah said in Al-Quran, surah At Taghabun (chapter 64) verse 15:Your riches and your children may be but a trial: but in the Presence of Allah, is the highest, Reward.And this verse will motivate you not to loose hope. Surah Yusuf (chapter 12) verse 87: ....and never give up hope of Allah's Soothing Mercy: truly no one despairs of Allah's Soothing Mercy, except those who have no faith." May Allah bless Rayhan and your family.
See ya
Assalamualaikum :)
25 Apr 2012
“Don’t Ignore People With Infertility – Do You See Me?”
When I was talking with my four pregnant friends and you came up to us and said, “Aw! Look at all the pregnant women!” Did you see me?
When you, my good friend who was once in my shoes, listened to me time
and again talk about the pain of my infertility, yet one day said, “I
think you need a support group.” Did you see I stopped calling you for support?
When you laughed about getting pregnant with your sixth child and said, “All he had to do was look at me!” Did you see me force a smile and wish it were really that easy?
When I was standing around my five expectant friends, you took note of
their pregnant state and then looked at me saying, “What are you doing
here? Wishful thinking?” Did you see me quietly excuse myself so I could run to the bathroom and cry?
When we got together for ladies fellowships, did you see I didn’t say anything because the only topics of conversation that came up were your pregnancy stories?
“Just call me Fertile Myrtle!” “I’m so ready for this morning
sickness to be over.” “Hubby ran to the store and got me ice cream at
midnight!” “I felt her kick for the first time!” “I feel like a
beached whale!”
When our group of friends went out to lunch, did you see how I felt excluded when all anyone could discuss were the latest and greatest books and blogs on parenting?
When you talk about how everyone is pregnant – “Don’t drink the water!” Did you see me? I’m not pregnant, but I want to be.
When you opened gifts at your baby shower, did you see me in the crowd, trying to share in your joy, all the while hoping I could be next?
When the mothers were asked to stand in church on Mother’s Day, did you see me – sitting – hoping not to burst into tears and not wanting anyone to feel sorry for me?
When all you posted on facebook were pictures of your ultrasounds,
updates of your cravings, photos of your pregnant belly month by month,
posts of registering at Babies R Us, doctor visits, and Baby Center, did
you see I am one of your “facebook” friends? Did you see I had to limit your updates?
When God finally blessed you with a baby after your struggle with infertility, did you, of all people, see me?
If you do see me…
Don’t ignore me. To ignore is not to know. Don’t refuse to take notice of me and my infertility.
Think before you speak, if you must speak at all.
Don’t isolate me. Try to imagine what it could be like if you were in my place and what you would want someone to say.
Remember I confided in you because I thought you were my friend.
Don’t dismiss my infertility – I may be in the minority, but I still have feelings.
Take a moment in private to tell me you hope I am next.
Don’t make mindless comments about your ability or my inability to get pregnant.
Write a heartfelt note to encourage me not to give up hope.
Think about excluding me from your baby posts so I won’t have to limit your updates. Or try to understand if I don’t “like” or comment on them.
Don’t disengage me from conversation – take notice there are many interesting things to talk about in addition to pregnancy and babies.
Let me know you are praying for me – and then pray for me.
Don’t pretend that I have never talked to you about my struggle. I made myself vulnerable sharing that with you. Can you show balance while rejoicing in your pregnant/mommy state but also by being mindful of my infertility?
Consider that even if you don’t know I am struggling with infertility, there’s a good chance I am.
24 Apr 2012
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